Kathy Etchingham

British writer (born 1946)

Kathy Etchingham
Kathy Etchingham at Jimi Hendrix Blue Plaque unveiling
Born	Kathleen Mary Etchingham (1946-06-18) 18 June 1946 (age 77) Derby, England
Occupation	Author^[1]
Partner	Jimi Hendrix (1966–1969)
Children	William Page
Website	kathyetchingham.com

Kathleen Mary Etchingham (born 18 June 1946) is an English writer known from the Swinging London music scene of the 1960s and her relationship with Jimi Hendrix.^[2]

Early life

Etchingham was born in Derby, the daughter of Charles Etchingham, an Irishman from Dublin. Her mother deserted the family when Kathy was 10 years old, and Kathy was sent to the Holy Faith convent boarding school in Skerries, Dublin. Returning to England, having been snatched from the convent by her mother, she eventually made her way to London.

1960s London

In London, Etchingham became a DJ at The Cromwellian in Kensington and later at the Scotch of St James in Mason's Yard,^[2] in addition to working as a hairdresser.^[3] She knew the up-and-coming musicians of the period including The Animals, The Who, The Kinks, The Moody Blues, The Move, and many others. These bands became known in the US in the mid-1960s as the British Invasion.^[4]

Etchingham, at age 20, met Jimi Hendrix in The Scotch of St. James nightclub, on the night of his arrival in London on 24 September 1966.^[2] They became a couple during the time of his rise to stardom. According to her personal web page, Etchingham was the inspiration for many of Hendrix's compositions including "The Wind Cries Mary" (penned after an argument between Hendrix and Etchingham), "Foxy Lady" (during one of the first performances of this number Hendrix pointed her out from the stage), as the Katherina in "1983... (A Merman I Should Turn to Be)" and in "Send My Love to Linda" (the original lyrics of which were "Send My Love to Kathy", until Etchingham objected to being named).^[5] In 1969, she and Hendrix drifted apart.^[2]

Later life

Etchingham's first marriage broke up, and she later remarried and had a family.^[6] In 1997, she was instrumental in the placement of an English Heritage blue plaque on the wall of Jimi Hendrix’s home at 23 Brook Street, Mayfair.^[7] In 1998, she published a book, Through Gypsy Eyes, which Etchingham wrote with Andrew Crofts, about her life, the 1960s, and Jimi Hendrix.^[1]

I want him to be remembered for what he was – not this tragic figure he has been turned into by nit-pickers and people who used to stalk us and collect photographs and "evidence" of what we were doing on a certain day. He could be grumpy, and he could be terrible in the studio, getting exactly what he wanted – but he was fun, he was charming. I want people to remember the man I knew.^[8]

In 2014, Etchingham criticised the biographical film which covered her relationship with Hendrix in the 1960s, Jimi: All Is by My Side, written and directed by John Ridley. Etchingham described the film depiction of her life with Hendrix as "absolute nonsense".^[9]

References

^ ^a ^b Etchingham, Kathy (with Crofts, Andrew) (1999). Through Gypsy Eyes. Orion. ISBN 978-0752827254.{{cite book}}: CS1 maint: multiple names: authors list (link)
^ ^a ^b ^c ^d Watts, Simon (3 February 2013). "Kathy Etchingham: Life as Jimi Hendrix's 'Foxy Lady'". BBC News. UK: BBC. Retrieved 28 October 2014.
^ Braid, Mary (1 May 1996). "A rock legend unto herself: She was with Jimi Hendrix when he died and built up a life based on their relationship. But in the end Monika Dannemann was the victim of her own self-delusion". The Independent. UK. Retrieved 26 March 2019.
^ Puterbaugh, Parke (14 July 1988). "The British Invasion: From the Beatles to the Stones, The Sixties Belonged to Britain". Rolling Stone. Retrieved 10 June 2018.
^ "Kathy Etchingham website". Original document. Archived from the original on 13 September 2013. Retrieved 8 February 2013.
^ Veash, Nicole (4 April 1996). "'Foxy Lady' is winner over Hendrix slur". The Independent. Retrieved 10 June 2018.
^ Hudson, Mark (23 August 2010). "The only place Jimi Hendrix called home". The Daily Telegraph. Retrieved 10 June 2018.
^ Vulliamy, Ed (8 August 2010). "Jimi Hendrix: 'You never told me he was that good'". The Observer. London. Retrieved 21 October 2012.
^ Barnes, Henry (21 October 2014). "That never happened: the biopic conundrum". The Guardian. Retrieved 28 October 2014.